Why not do the assignment today and stop putting off what is important for less important things? Why don’t you set your priorities right? So many of us enjoy putting things off until it gets up to our neck and then we start running helter-skelter. But the bitter thing about that is that the time we avoid doing the important things on our schedule is usually wasted doing nonproductive things. … More How to Handle Procrastination
Most depressed persons are lonely with nobody to beckon on, that is why after identifying the cause, you need to get closer to the person. By allowing a huge gap, you give room for the person to find solace in negativity. To help against depression isn’t an easy task but in the long run, the positive effect always overshadows the negative. … More Got a Depressed Friend? Here’s What to do
Everyone wants to be listened to, we all want people to acknowledge us when we speak, we want someone who we can tell our problems in order to console us or offer possible solutions. Being a good listener is not just about being attentive to the speaker, rather, it is about putting yourself in the person’s shoe, understanding without judging, showing sympathy without pitying. … More How to Be a Better Listener
Whenever you’re involved in gossip game or chit-chat with friends, we all need to filter through these three things:
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There is the need for you to believe in yourself. Believing in yourself goes a long way in making others believe and support your dreams. Your family background may not look like what it should be, the environment itself may not be encouraging, but knowing and believing who you are and what you aim at becoming is very essential. … More You Can be Whatever you Want to be.
Forgiving yourself is simply letting go of the past. It is identifying the limiting belief or negative emotion you’ve attached to certain things or events, it is moving on.
For most people, forgiving yourself is harder than forgiving others. When you don’t forgive others it becomes resentment and anger and when you don’t forgive yourself, it becomes shame and guilt. … More Forgiveness: Forgiving You
what do you say? What do you say when people say you can’t do well? What do you say when situations don’t turn in your favour? What do you say when they say you’re a failure? What do you say when they tell you your dreams are too big and unrealistic? What do you say when you fail exams? What do you say when you’re being compelled to give up? … More What Do You Say?
The reason why you excuse yourself with the inspiration banter is simply that you have too much time on your hands and you don’t have a goal to meet.. The truth about waiting to be inspired is that you limit yourself to wavering conditions and subject yourself to things that you can control. … More Don’t Wait For Inspiration Before You Write
What would you describe as being the best? A lot of us make the mistake of evaluating and placing value on ourselves based on what other people have achieved. We try to compare our lives with that of someone else. When the admiration tends toward frustration rather than motivation, then you really need to check it. If you are honestly doing the best you can to achieve something, then you would have a personal satisfaction towards the work you have done. … More Becoming the Best