Boundaries are definitions – definitions of you. But when someone is trying to define you according to what they think, what do you do? How do you keep your boundaries?
Boundaries are meant to protect and guide you and not to limit you. Therefore, as you draw boundaries, keep them, know when to expand them, and expand them. … More On Keeping Boundaries
“Teach us to number our days”
Said the old man of times past with a reason.
Length of time from birth to death –
Is it not a mark of ink?
For the measure of life in count of days
Is of no use when no substance is released. … More Count of Days- a Poem
You can’t do without relationships. In fact, life is both rewarding and frustrating because of people. You can’t run away from that. To save yourself from the hurts or pain you will encounter, you will have to draw boundaries – indicate what you want and you don’t, what you will give and what you won’t. … More On Drawing Boundaries
As we continue in the fight against this rapidly spreading and respecter-of-no-person disease, I think it is necessary that we reflect and learn some lessons from what is happening so that when it is done, we would be able to live better and smarter than we were before the pandemic. … More COVID-19: a Few Lessons to Learn.
Hand washing is not the ultimate defense or preventive measure to stop these invisible warriors from entering into our bodies and doing their sinister acts but it is one way (without unnecessary stress) you can reduce the risk of falling victim to their vicious deeds. … More Why Washing Your Hands is a Big Deal
To determine what your needs are from your wants, a sense of purpose is needed. What your essence is and why you are living, which will help you define what you need and what you merely want. Then your energy will be focused on the important ones and your life becomes simple. … More A Guide to Simple Living
Knowledge is power and it transforms only if you allow it. Let us proceed on this journey to attain academic excellence by doing all those things that matter. Knowing what works for you simplifies your life and work and also makes it all fun. Most of all, believe that you are a success and you will be! … More 8 Tips for Academic Excellence
Some may argue that reading a book with a preconceived opinion distort the information you get from a book. True. But you would not pick a book and start reading for no reason. Don’t hinder other aspects of your life because you are reading a book. Be accountable for whatever you read. … More Getting the Most from Self-help Books
The extent to which you derive satisfaction from your endeavours and achievements is determined beyond every reasonable doubt by why you did them. Before you start chasing those dreams, channelling your energy and resources into getting that fame, ask yourself that bitter but essential question “why?” … More What Really Matters- Know Your WHY