Growing up with a brother or sister can have an impact on our mental and physical health , infact it can shape who we become later in life. … More Why You Should Create Bonds with Siblings
1. Typical Teenagers’ Struggles:
Typical struggles that teenagers go through was evidenced in this novel. Kiitan at the beginning of the novel was caught masturbating and watching pornography. Enitan got into sexual practices,c alcoholism, and was wrongly influenced.
This was evident in the relationship that existed between the two brothers. This resentment was there from when they were teenagers, up until they grew up and went to the university. And we see how much damage that caused them.
The theme of Influence was also very prominent in the novel. Good and bad Influence! Jumoke And Lanre had a bad influence on Enitan. Mary and the other classmates had a good influence on each other, as they studied for their WAEC together. Aunty Rose had a good influence on Enitan’s family, etc.
4. Salvation; The Love of God:
Oh, the overwhelming love of God!
The love of God is so deep, it chased Enitan, Kiitan And their father down, till it caught up with them, and changed their lives forever. God’s love as displayed in this novel showed that there is no one that cannot be saved. No one is too far gone. … More A Review on the Novel- Crossfire by OmoobaJesu Adetunji
As much as people (married and unmarried alike) try to prevent teenage or unwanted pregnancies, situations arise where these preventions fail. As a result, different thoughts cross their minds and they get to ask questions like: What can I do when I get pregnant as a teenager? How do I handle social stigmatization of an unwanted pregnancy? … More How to Handle an Unwanted or a Teenage Pregnancy
Most teenagers, young adults, undergraduates can, at some point, attest to having a hard time trying to play the role of parents and also playing the role of a teenage child at the same time. Remember you don’t have to struggle through this. Take the right steps and learn to look up to the right people to learn from them. This self-parenting is a journey that we must learn to scale through. … More Adulthood and Self – Parenting
The riches your parents are acquiring this moment might be equal to nothing in the next few years. Make wealth that resonates with your own time and generation. … More My Parents are Rich; Should I Worry About Making any Income?
It doesn’t matter if your earthly father is good or bad; whether he cares for you or not, supports you or not, all that matters is that we all have a father who is good, cares for us and would never want to see us go astray. Do you think of your earthly father as a man who is still battling with disappointment? He hardly fulfils his promises, for reasons you can’t place your fingers on? Our Heavenly Father is not like that. … More What a Perfect Father We Have in God
The difference between your biological father and a father figure is that you didn’t get the opportunity to choose the first, but you chose the later. The right father figure is important because fathers set landmarks for their children. … More How to Choose the Right Father Figure
A lot of teenagers who are being abused by their dad blame themselves for being in such position. First, it is not your fault that your dad acts that way towards you. … More Dealing With an Abusive Father
A change does not occur just after reading a long blog post. Change starts when you determine to make things happen, and also stay consistent on good behaviors. … More How to Cope With a Single Dad