As a little child growing up, I thought my mother did all the work and had to take credit for it all, but now I am grown and I know better. Now I know that although men may not be seen through the world’s view as the “weaker vessel”, they still have their moments of weakness. They are men and yes, they are vulnerable. … More To Our Men🥂
You are not alone. God’s got your back on this. … More You Are Not Alone in This
Self-motivation is simply an extra push you obliged on yourself to fulfill the goal already set. While this has a way of clenching you on track, there will be days when it will be tough to do anything, particularly when some important tasks are to required to be done. On days like this, here are a few tips to guide you to motivate yourself… … More Ways to Self-motivate
We are at a point in life where mere wishes alone and even sweet talks are not enough to get things done. We need to actively engage our audience and people around us to achieve a common goal and get the things that we want done. To do this, we need the right skill set and that importantly must have Friendly Persuasion in it.
Listening is a strong emotion, as opposed to what many think of it to mean surrender. When you listen, you process information right, you know the strong and weak points of your counterpart, then you are able to pick a consensus that will create a win-win situation for both parties
Passion fuels a desire that creates a special drive within you to achieve those goals in your path and become better. However, I find that we might have romanticised the idea of following your passion as being an untiring, unyielding, constantly motivated journey.
I for one grew up expecting to discover something I would love so much, I would go to classes everyday with a spring in my step while in school, bag a first class degree because studying would be so enjoyable, and things would just fall in place to get me to the peak of my career all because of my untiring passion. Thinking about that utopian dream now is decidedly funny. Life really said “lol, hold my beer” as I entered my late teens, didn’t it? … More The Myth of an Untiring Passion
Resilience is the ability to put all of life’s disappointment behind and forge ahead. It is being able to recognize that you failed, that you know you didn’t do well, but it’s not okay if you stay and blame yourself. … More Why is Resilience Important?
Yes, there is a comeback! Yes, there is a comeback! But you have to create one. And your motive for a second chance shouldn’t be to prove a point rather, let progress be your driving force.
I understand waiting for anything is hard but wait with a good attitude for your comeback. … More Creating a Second Chance After a Major Setback
I have chosen to consciously believe in the predestination of a path that is the very best for me.
On some nights, it is not much comfort. I still struggle very much with destructive comparison. But I have chosen to never be held down; to ensure that I keep making progress regardless of how minute it may seem. … More The Danger of Destructive Comparison
The fact that you lack some privileges in life, what are you doing about it? Even if you are given those privileges, what will you do with it?
Stop thinking of how other people made their life and start making yours! … More Go Out and Make Something of Yourself!