An Essential Trait Known as Confidence

Confidence is this beautiful. You might have encountered something close to this, where a person who knows little or nothing about a thing ends up sounding so right before people. Merely watching this person, how they walked with confidence in their gait, demonstrated and spoke confidently, with everyone giving them a pass mark. All that we saw oozing out of that person was the air of knowledge and all, when ordinarily we knew much more but were scared to speak up.  … More An Essential Trait Known as Confidence


How to Start your Dreams When you’re Scared

The fears that come with actualizing dreams are very real. It’s not as easy right now, compared to how it was when we were kids; when we could conveniently say: I will become this, I’ll love to get this or that, I hope to get this done by this time. We said these things with little or no fear at all. The fear of not getting those things was never an issue. Just somehow, we were sure of becoming that person. … More How to Start your Dreams When you’re Scared

Accepting What is Done

In general, life happen to us all. As often as not, these mistakes and painful events weren’t deliberate or personal. Sometimes, they just don’t know what they were doing; they were as naive, as ignorant and as human as anyone could be.

Don’t label people and events as ‘good’ and ‘bad’. As good or bad as those events or persons might have seem at the time, it is how we allow it affect us that is the real ‘good’ or ‘bad’.  There are two ways to go about it: … More Accepting What is Done

Signs You Are Not Ready for a Relationship

Wanting a relationship is not as important as being ready for one. Often times, we find ourselves focusing on our expectations from prospective partners, their looks, how the relationship would be and all that. We fail to look internally and tell if really we are ready enough to handle one. 

A lot of people spend their time trying to get into and stay in a relationship that ordinarily they have no business being near. 

Being in a healthy relationship is great and exhilarating, but a relationship is not that missing puzzle we need to complete our lives.  … More Signs You Are Not Ready for a Relationship

It Begins With You

Kelvin didn’t quite bother about his fiancé’s being overweight until she constantly spoke of it, thinking she was trying to justify her looks. Ella never bothered about Sam’s ‘big head’ until he occasionally talked about it, only then did she take note of his owning a large head. Andrew never cared about her somewhat masculine … More It Begins With You