Recheck YOU! 

If you are not willing to redefine who you are now, you can even lose the most valued things and pursuits you have. You could personally ruin your dreams for yourself and tend to enjoy a stagnant life that seems to be progressive but in the same position as a ‘relative motion’. … More Recheck YOU! 

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Surviving the Effects of Abuse

It was never your fault. Sometimes, we are responsible for experiences that aren’t our fault. 

Fault is past tense while responsibility is present tense. The abuser is at fault but your current happiness and present state is your responsibility. … More Surviving the Effects of Abuse

Before You Say Hello to a Relationship

Relationships are not walked into, they are built. You don’t wake on a beautiful morning, see a pretty young girl or prince charming and begin to nurse the idea of starting a relationship with him/her.

Abuse in relationships will be inevitable when its true purposes are not known. A lot of us walk into relationships before we understand why we started them in the first place, … More Before You Say Hello to a Relationship

An Essential Trait Known as Confidence

Confidence is this beautiful. You might have encountered something close to this, where a person who knows little or nothing about a thing ends up sounding so right before people. Merely watching this person, how they walked with confidence in their gait, demonstrated and spoke confidently, with everyone giving them a pass mark. All that we saw oozing out of that person was the air of knowledge and all, when ordinarily we knew much more but were scared to speak up.  … More An Essential Trait Known as Confidence

How to Start your Dreams When you’re Scared

The fears that come with actualizing dreams are very real. It’s not as easy right now, compared to how it was when we were kids; when we could conveniently say: I will become this, I’ll love to get this or that, I hope to get this done by this time. We said these things with little or no fear at all. The fear of not getting those things was never an issue. Just somehow, we were sure of becoming that person. … More How to Start your Dreams When you’re Scared

Accepting What is Done

In general, life happen to us all. As often as not, these mistakes and painful events weren’t deliberate or personal. Sometimes, they just don’t know what they were doing; they were as naive, as ignorant and as human as anyone could be.

Don’t label people and events as ‘good’ and ‘bad’. As good or bad as those events or persons might have seem at the time, it is how we allow it affect us that is the real ‘good’ or ‘bad’.  There are two ways to go about it: … More Accepting What is Done