Friends have expectations of what they expect us to achieve. The society and social media has put pressure on us to ‘become’, but we can still control the effect of all this on us.
If you take the wrong step or move to ‘become’ when you are not ready, you would have yourself to blame for the consequences! … More The Pressure of Becoming in the World Today
Yes, you’ve seen these people at their best and worst moments: you’ve seen them laugh and cry. You’ve seen them pull of their shirts when there’s heat. You’ve seen them confused. Maybe you’ve even seen them snore or fart!
But you should learn to ignore their weakness/humanity. Learn to respect their ingenuity, strengths, and wisdom. Learn to submit to them and get things solved.
That solution or improvement you desire in your career, relationship, spiritual growth, attitude, behavior/habit and so on may just be around you. That friend of yours whom you laugh together all the time may have the solution. Your boyfriend/girlfriend may know the way out. That lady/guy who is younger than you may know just what you need. … More The Cost of Familiarity
Now, I know we’re in the ‘jet age’ and we feel practices like this is old school, but that’s not true. we mustn’t allow borrowed culture deprive us of our common sense/morals. … More Respect is Indeed Reciprocal
When you’re angry, you may not see the whole picture. When angry, you would most likely justify yourself alone and judge too quickly. So, it’s better to take the decision when you’re thinking straight and not when you’re under the influence of anger. Prioritize the ‘major’ above the ‘minor’. Prioritize that relationship. … More Priority in Relationships
Eternal salvation is basic in Christianity. If a believer is not grounded and well rested in this truth, his Christian life would remain unstable. His spiritual growth would not be stable as he would be tossed to and fro by condemnation. Salvation is completely God’s work, it needs no input of man than to believe. … More Is the Salvation of God in Christ Jesus Eternal?
Reading the Bible could seem like an easy and straightforward thing to do. Most of us hardly read by ourselves. Even when we do, we mostly read to prove a point and not read the whole Bible together. Yes, Bible study is ‘hard work’ and it is worth it … More How Have You Been Reading Your Bible?
No matter who says what, no matter any man’s experience, vision, or thought, once it’s not consistent with the truth of God’s word – it can be discarded. God doesn’t tempt any man to try and bring him closer: not with sin, not with sickness, and definitely not with death. … More Covid-19: Where’s God in all this?
While it’s absolutely wise to stay at home, many young adults and teenagers are already being ‘tormented’ by boredom. It may be normal for the ones who would naturally keep to themselves even when there’s no isolation, but for those who are not used to this – it could be miserable, and they might as well waste away the whole day. … More Covid-19: How to Maximize Your Time
To be disciplined is to work hard to achieve a set of goals. Success is not birthed in the presence of laziness and/or indiscipline. We have to decide to be disciplined at that which would benefit us, and lead us a step forward to achieving our dreams. … More Discipline: a Necessity For Success