Rejection is a sting. It keeps running deep into the emotions. Sometimes, the emotional pain can feel like physical pain. If rejection is this bad, how then can one deal with rejection?
Rejection is a chance to consider if there are things you need to work on. If you need more skill, learn it. If you need more experience, go for it. Keep developing yourself and you will get better. … More Dealing with Rejection
Love is not an instinct or an inborn ability. We often conclude that love should be birthed in us automatically. But like an action, love is a skill that can be learned and developed. Love is should not be for a particular season or date. … More Expressing Love in Simple Ways
An inner drive is powerful. It’s from within. Nothing spurs you to action other than yourself. At the same time, nothing can kill this drive except you. Remember you are the creator and can be the killer as well.
Lunching out is great. Breaking limits is awesome. But beyond words of affirmation, your inner self is of utmost importance. … More It Takes Strength to Build
The processing of an idea, a dream, a vision and a destination requires time. A seed planted needs to become a tree but it will require time. Your set plans, goals and aspiration will come to the limelight just as you have always wanted but you have a price to pay, which is time. … More It Takes Time to Build
When you prioritize well, you walk with time. If you don’t get your priorities right, you will be fighting with time. You begin to fight with time when you are in a rush and it looks as though time is against you. Truthfully, time isn’t against you. Rather, you were the one who made the mistake of not befriending time and in turn, time became your enemy. … More How Do You Set Your Priorities?
Influence is so powerful. If you spend just a minute with someone, it could either make you a better person or make you feel worse than you were before meeting them. There is much to what we think our association does to us. You can become a better person when you have good influencers. … More Who and What Influences You?
Changes in any form usually bring some unfamiliar situations which you need to adjust into. This adjustment period is what I can refer to as “a period of storm and stress”.
Everyone, at any point in life, has gone through this phase. You can talk to someone about it. Just know that you are never alone. … More Adolescence: a Period of Storm and Stress
2018, just like 2019, came as a blank card. The question now is, “what did I write on it and how well have I accomplished what I wrote?”
Do you think there’s a need for improvement this year or would you rather live life the way you did last year?
Know that being alive is a privilege, not a mistake. It is an opportunity to make things happen. … More A New Year: Make Your Life Count
Sometimes, a wrong choice can be amended but most times, they are irreversible. And even when choices are amended, the past is not erasable. Those that have trodden this path can tell you that it’s not as easy as it seems. Teenage years are serious years, you pay now and play later or you play now and pay later. The former is very much preferable. … More Laying the Right Foundation as a Teen