Friends have expectations of what they expect us to achieve. The society and social media has put pressure on us to ‘become’, but we can still control the effect of all this on us.
If you take the wrong step or move to ‘become’ when you are not ready, you would have yourself to blame for the consequences! … More The Pressure of Becoming in the World Today
You were designed for something uniquely beautiful. It is in you. If you feel like you’re not fulfilling purpose, it only means that you are yet to chisel off all the unnecessary things and allow the beauty show. This unnecessary stuff may be in the form of negative self-talks, certain routines, habits and negative associations. … More Reinventing You!
There is the need for you to believe in yourself. Believing in yourself goes a long way in making others believe and support your dreams. Your family background may not look like what it should be, the environment itself may not be encouraging, but knowing and believing who you are and what you aim at becoming is very essential. … More You Can be Whatever you Want to be.
In general, life happen to us all. As often as not, these mistakes and painful events weren’t deliberate or personal. Sometimes, they just don’t know what they were doing; they were as naive, as ignorant and as human as anyone could be.
Don’t label people and events as ‘good’ and ‘bad’. As good or bad as those events or persons might have seem at the time, it is how we allow it affect us that is the real ‘good’ or ‘bad’. There are two ways to go about it: … More Accepting What is Done
I’m beginning to learn something really interesting in life, and that’s not comparing myself with any other person, no matter who! This has been working for me lately, and I’m really enjoying it. My life is not yours, neither is yours mine. Let’s live our lives the way it’ll work for us. … More About Failure, Having Two Heads, and Becoming