How to Deal with Rejection

Rejection is part of our daily lives, and in one way or the other, we are rejected, be it socially or otherwise. Whichever way it comes, feel it but don’t allow it to weigh you down; make corrections and be responsible and accountable about it; move from toxic people and surround yourself with those that appreciate you; build up yourself and see life with a bright smile each day. … More How to Deal with Rejection

Ways to Cope When a Loved One Dies

At some point in life, everyone loses someone they love. This is one of the most difficult life events imaginable. You need to be able to cope in a way that’s healthy, even if it’s painful. In the direct aftermath, allow yourself to work through your emotions. … More Ways to Cope When a Loved One Dies

Things Children Need From their Parents- 1

Raising children is scary and as parents, we can get so caught up in fear we forget to have faith. Our belief in our children determines their belief in themselves. Every child needs love. All children deserve love. We can give our children too many “things” and we can award them “pleasures” they do not deserve, but these pleasures only serve to make them feel empty if they were not rightfully earned. … More Things Children Need From their Parents- 1

How Would Jesus Party?

I was called uptight, too holy and my general nickname- Jesus girl. On weekends, they partied. I couldn’t attend because there was no excuse I could give at home and also because they went to lounge and bars where alcohol was. I couldn’t go there. I didn’t belong there.

It is not a crime to Party, but always have this at the back of your mind: How would Jesus Party? … More How Would Jesus Party?

Overcoming Distorted Negative Thinking

Imagine you criticizing yourself and bringing yourself down, telling yourself that you are impossible, that you’re worthless, etc. It’s not just criticism but it affects you negatively. You tend to lose faith and hope in yourself, then negative thinking sets in, which not only affects you but also your work, your relationship, your mind, low self-esteem, health and life. … More Overcoming Distorted Negative Thinking

Forgiving Yourself and Others

True repentance isn’t all about shedding tears and being enveloped by guilt. It’s being convicted to move on and fix our mistakes in order to become better versions of ourselves tomorrow.
Don’t fall under the pressure of having to forgive someone instantaneously within the same second that you say you forgive them. It’s a process. Little by little, the hurt will disappear and that’s just fine. … More Forgiving Yourself and Others