Giving and Not Receiving. What to do?

Giving and always expecting to receive back is like expecting lions not to eat you because you don’t eat lions. You would most like regret it.

How many times have you given out a gift (cash, a wristwatch, a book, or your time) to a friend and they never gave you anything back? … More Giving and Not Receiving. What to do?

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Making Excuses For People: a Peaceful Way to Live

Rather than drowning in anger, bitterness, and frustration, what if we choose to start making excuses for people?

We draw out conclusions and make certain projections which are mostly negative and based only on what we see on the surface.

But rather than drowning in anger, bitterness, and frustration, what if we choose to start making excuses for people? By doing this, we get to put our mind in a place of rest/peace. … More Making Excuses For People: a Peaceful Way to Live

Dealing with Heartbreak

Relationships are like glass, sometimes it’s better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.

Getting over a broken heart can take a lot of energy, work and time. It’s like quicksand; it takes and takes. You might think you’re over it, then the memories filter through your eyes. The scenes play like the fairytale you imagined – the happily-ever-after narrative. You get washed up with feelings all over again. … More Dealing with Heartbreak

Persuasion: the Way Out of an Unhealthy Argument

We are at a point in life where mere wishes alone and even sweet talks are not enough to get things done. We need to actively engage our audience and people around us to achieve a common goal and get the things that we want done. To do this, we need the right skill set and that importantly must have Friendly Persuasion in it.

Listening is a strong emotion, as opposed to what many think of it to mean surrender. When you listen, you process information right, you know the strong and weak points of your counterpart, then you are able to pick a consensus that will create a win-win situation for both parties

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Living Through Grief

This is coming to terms with the loss. Grief inescapably might not pertain to an emotional state of mind, it could be not getting the result you want after putting in so much work. Hence, coming to terms with what is gone and deciding to agree with this validity is the first phase of living through grief. … More Living Through Grief

The Art of Listening beyond Hearing

A common misconception is to think that the art of listening can only happen when we have someone before us, speaking actual words; it might interest you to know that great listeners account to listen to so many things;

Dear humans, when “words fail you” next time, simply say the little you can, take the listening position and give room for the conversation to go on from another end.

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