Letter to Teenage Bride, Asake

But you are scared. You think I will not believe like your parents do. You are scared that I will judge you. I love you, Asake. Even though you are battered and in need of a fixup, I love you. You are beautiful, Asake. … More Letter to Teenage Bride, Asake

Can We Talk More Deeply About Love and Lust?

Isn’t it extremely cheap to make ephemeral promises, when lust is ruling you? Isn’t it so sweet to make yourself believe promises that your guts tell you are not true?

With every reason in the world to leave, Love cannot imagine life without you. Love will give you its eyes, the entirety of its being, and will gladly make the riskiest sacrifice in the world for you. … More Can We Talk More Deeply About Love and Lust?

Before You Say Hello to a Relationship

Relationships are not walked into, they are built. You don’t wake on a beautiful morning, see a pretty young girl or prince charming and begin to nurse the idea of starting a relationship with him/her.

Abuse in relationships will be inevitable when its true purposes are not known. A lot of us walk into relationships before we understand why we started them in the first place, … More Before You Say Hello to a Relationship

Is the Love Lost in Lust?

You want to know if you really love that person or if you are just lusting; please look deep and check if God is present in that feeling. Ask yourself if you feel peace thinking about that person with God in mind, if you are confident to talk to God about that person, and if God is smiling as you tell that person “I love you”, ask yourself if God would be happy seeing you go into a relationship with that person. … More Is the Love Lost in Lust?

Letter to Marco 

Values depreciate, flowers get wilted I knew not that you saw me as cheap and gullible When will you ever stop lying to me? When will things change? Things can never be normal if you keep lying and deceiving me…. Our relationship then started with trust, love, understanding and everything good one could think of, But … More Letter to Marco 

Love Supersedes All

I think I found the cure for divorce. Spend one morning at divorce court. This is what I did yesterday while standing as a character reference for one of our church members.
Ours was the last case of the day, so I got a chance to witness a number of emotional, spiritual and physical disasters unfold … More Love Supersedes All