The story of the butterfly is one that I love so much and explains exactly what I’m trying to communicate to you.
As a caterpillar, the butterfly has to go through some sort of struggle in the cocoon before it can grow into the beautiful butterfly that we all admire. However, in that struggle, it goes through pain. In the midst of that pain, the butterfly passes the needed fluid to its entire body so it can ultimately grow and be able to fly. … More Necessary Evil
At some point in life, everyone loses someone they love. This is one of the most difficult life events imaginable. You need to be able to cope in a way that’s healthy, even if it’s painful. In the direct aftermath, allow yourself to work through your emotions. … More Ways to Cope When a Loved One Dies
A single woman who breathes is worth more than one who is married but goes to the grave a few months after. Reclaim your life. Go out with friends and shout on top of your lungs at mountaintops. Live and love. … More He Beats Me, So What? Love Conquers All?
You can’t undo the past; at the same time, feeling insecure wouldn’t want you to make it into the future. Yes, I know it is not easy to let go but the freedom you will enjoy is nothing compared to your present situation.
This is not to waive the hurt that you may feel, but to encourage you to heal. … More Hurt, Fear and Insecurity Feelings
I declare with so much strength on my inside that enough is enough of carrying around me the luggage of the past
It sure bears so much weight
I say to myself:
I am not to be pitied… … More Taking Charge and Leaving My Pain Behind | by Deborah Ashaye