Rather than drowning in anger, bitterness, and frustration, what if we choose to start making excuses for people?
We draw out conclusions and make certain projections which are mostly negative and based only on what we see on the surface.
But rather than drowning in anger, bitterness, and frustration, what if we choose to start making excuses for people? By doing this, we get to put our mind in a place of rest/peace. … More Making Excuses For People: a Peaceful Way to Live
It’s so beautiful when you can always be you when you’re with your loved one. There’s no feeling as peaceful as being in an honest relationship.
… More Sincerity: the Way to Sustain Relationships
More often than not, these enemies take the form of the person between our own ears, or situations caused by our own hands. They become more dangerous because we concentrate on external factors, completely oblivious to the very cause of the problem that may be right in front of us. … More Dealing With the Enemy Within
Boundaries are definitions – definitions of you. But when someone is trying to define you according to what they think, what do you do? How do you keep your boundaries?
Boundaries are meant to protect and guide you and not to limit you. Therefore, as you draw boundaries, keep them, know when to expand them, and expand them. … More On Keeping Boundaries
As a leader or initiator of a group or movement, it is necessary to understand what you are starting and what you intend to do with it. When a movement lacks leadership and vision, chaos seeps in subtly and what began innocuously, and with noble intentions becomes a hydra; a many-headed monster that can no longer be controlled. … More Chaos: Exercising Control
Growing up with a brother or sister can have an impact on our mental and physical health , infact it can shape who we become later in life. … More Why You Should Create Bonds with Siblings
If you do not fully understand their point at the moment, you can make notes (mentally or scribble down things), to revisit at a private time. But when you are around them, try to make them comfortable. … More Speaking with a Depressed Friend
When you’re angry, you may not see the whole picture. When angry, you would most likely justify yourself alone and judge too quickly. So, it’s better to take the decision when you’re thinking straight and not when you’re under the influence of anger. Prioritize the ‘major’ above the ‘minor’. Prioritize that relationship. … More Priority in Relationships
I hope you would be convinced to know that it is possible to stay calm, maintain peace and avoid conflict. Bear in mind though that these tips will, for now, only guarantee a shift in your own mindset and not a shift in the mindset of the people you would be dealing with.
The change you seek to see most of the time needs to take place in you first before it takes place in others. It’s a process. … More How to Deal with Difficult People