For every teen, a boy-girl relationship is a very big deal. Teenagers tend to get very interested in this topic and it is not new that it also captures the interest of teenagers rapidly.
I remember when I was still a teen, topics relating to boy-girl relationships grasp the interests of my friends and I. We do not get tired of listening to organized seminars or meetings in the church, addressing this particular topic. We always listened with rapt attention and if an individual attempts diverting our attention to something else during these meetings, such individuals would then know that it isn’t possible to move a mountain from its original position.
It is the same with every teenager out there now. Regardless of their age and the caliber of people they hang out with, this topic of boy-girl relationship is a very big deal. Every teenager in one way or the other would have been thinking about or exploring boy-girl relationships.
Starting from developing crushes on the opposite sex, to telling close friends about it and for some teenagers, to further telling the crush about it, which further graduates into amateur boy-girl relationship.
At this stage, the supposed duo becomes the envy of the class, church, or whatever and every other person wants to also have a boyfriend or girlfriend. This is now called “dating”.
It is very normal to have feelings for the opposite sex. You’re not committing a crime if you have these feelings. In fact, it shows that you’re a very normal person, growing up the same way everyone does.Tweet
Most parents, when they find out that their ward or child is in a relationship with the opposite sex, they tend to react in such a way that frightens the child. There are a lot of things children teenagers want to tell their parents about but the fear of being rebuked and punished keeps them silent.
It is essential for parents to build a relationship with their wards, such that they can confide in them and talk to them about anything bothering them.
Yes, it is your life. No arguments about that. You can obviously do whatever you like with it. But a teenager with dreams and focus, won’t divide his/her attention by going into meaningless relationships.
The stage you’re right now is a stage to build and beautify yourself. A rose that has been trampled upon has no effect on anyone. But when you stand your ground, beautify yourself and stand tall, you’ll be desired by many and admired by your peers, younger ones and even older ones.
Love will find its way at the right time. Now is the time to put things into place and build a very great future for yourself.
Are you deliberate about relationships?