Author: Arhueremu

I try to leave my 🐌.

focus

Accepting What is Done

February 28, 2018

In general, life happen to us all. As often as not, these mistakes and painful events weren’t deliberate or personal. Sometimes, they just don’t know what they were doing; they were as naive, as ignorant and as human as anyone could be.

Don’t label people and events as ‘good’ and ‘bad’. As good or bad as those events or persons might have seem at the time, it is how we allow it affect us that is the real ‘good’ or ‘bad’.  There are two ways to go about it: … More Accepting What is Done

love

Signs You Are Not Ready for a Relationship

February 7, 2018

Wanting a relationship is not as important as being ready for one. Often times, we find ourselves focusing on our expectations from prospective partners, their looks, how the relationship would be and all that. We fail to look internally and tell if really we are ready enough to handle one. 

A lot of people spend their time trying to get into and stay in a relationship that ordinarily they have no business being near. 

Being in a healthy relationship is great and exhilarating, but a relationship is not that missing puzzle we need to complete our lives.  … More Signs You Are Not Ready for a Relationship

beauty

It Begins With You

January 31, 2018

Kelvin didn’t quite bother about his fiancé’s being overweight until she constantly spoke of it, thinking she was trying to justify her looks. Ella never bothered about Sam’s ‘big head’ until he occasionally talked about it, only then did she take note of his owning a large head. Andrew never cared about her somewhat masculine … More It Begins With You