Sincerity: the Way to Sustain Relationships
August 20, 2020
It’s so beautiful when you can always be you when you’re with your loved one. There’s no feeling as peaceful as being in an honest relationship.
Category: relationship
Ways to Deal With a Difficult Person
August 17, 2020
We’ve been raised from different backgrounds, culture and ideologies and we can’t always reason on the same page. The fact that we have different temperaments is enough to make us act differently. So, learn to accept difficult people. See them as being different from you. Perhaps, that will make it easier to relate with them. … More Ways to Deal With a Difficult Person
On Keeping Boundaries
July 27, 2020
Boundaries are definitions – definitions of you. But when someone is trying to define you according to what they think, what do you do? How do you keep your boundaries?
Boundaries are meant to protect and guide you and not to limit you. Therefore, as you draw boundaries, keep them, know when to expand them, and expand them. … More On Keeping Boundaries
Why You Should Create Bonds with Siblings
July 15, 2020
Growing up with a brother or sister can have an impact on our mental and physical health , infact it can shape who we become later in life. … More Why You Should Create Bonds with Siblings
A Review on the Novel- Crossfire by OmoobaJesu Adetunji
July 13, 2020
1. Typical Teenagers’ Struggles:
Typical struggles that teenagers go through was evidenced in this novel. Kiitan at the beginning of the novel was caught masturbating and watching pornography. Enitan got into sexual practices,c alcoholism, and was wrongly influenced.
2. Resentment:
This was evident in the relationship that existed between the two brothers. This resentment was there from when they were teenagers, up until they grew up and went to the university. And we see how much damage that caused them.
3. Influence:
The theme of Influence was also very prominent in the novel. Good and bad Influence! Jumoke And Lanre had a bad influence on Enitan. Mary and the other classmates had a good influence on each other, as they studied for their WAEC together. Aunty Rose had a good influence on Enitan’s family, etc.
4. Salvation; The Love of God:
Oh, the overwhelming love of God!
The love of God is so deep, it chased Enitan, Kiitan And their father down, till it caught up with them, and changed their lives forever. God’s love as displayed in this novel showed that there is no one that cannot be saved. No one is too far gone. … More A Review on the Novel- Crossfire by OmoobaJesu Adetunji
The Cost of Familiarity
July 7, 2020
Yes, you’ve seen these people at their best and worst moments: you’ve seen them laugh and cry. You’ve seen them pull of their shirts when there’s heat. You’ve seen them confused. Maybe you’ve even seen them snore or fart!
But you should learn to ignore their weakness/humanity. Learn to respect their ingenuity, strengths, and wisdom. Learn to submit to them and get things solved.
That solution or improvement you desire in your career, relationship, spiritual growth, attitude, behavior/habit and so on may just be around you. That friend of yours whom you laugh together all the time may have the solution. Your boyfriend/girlfriend may know the way out. That lady/guy who is younger than you may know just what you need. … More The Cost of Familiarity
Speaking with a Depressed Friend
June 15, 2020
If you do not fully understand their point at the moment, you can make notes (mentally or scribble down things), to revisit at a private time. But when you are around them, try to make them comfortable. … More Speaking with a Depressed Friend
Teenagers and Boy-Girl Relationships
June 2, 2020
Teenagers, regardless of their age and the caliber of people they hang out with, this topic of boy-girl relationship is a very big deal. Every teenager in one way or the other would have been thinking about or exploring boy-girl relationships.
Am I Emotionally Fit for a Relationship? How to Know.
May 20, 2020
Questions like,will it last? is it love or lust? Different thoughts start dropping in your mind. No doubt, relationships can be stressful and demanding. … More Am I Emotionally Fit for a Relationship? How to Know.
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