Making Excuses For People: a Peaceful Way to Live

Rather than drowning in anger, bitterness, and frustration, what if we choose to start making excuses for people?

We draw out conclusions and make certain projections which are mostly negative and based only on what we see on the surface.

But rather than drowning in anger, bitterness, and frustration, what if we choose to start making excuses for people? By doing this, we get to put our mind in a place of rest/peace. … More Making Excuses For People: a Peaceful Way to Live

Dealing with Heartbreak

Relationships are like glass, sometimes it’s better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.

Getting over a broken heart can take a lot of energy, work and time. It’s like quicksand; it takes and takes. You might think you’re over it, then the memories filter through your eyes. The scenes play like the fairytale you imagined – the happily-ever-after narrative. You get washed up with feelings all over again. … More Dealing with Heartbreak

On Keeping Boundaries

Boundaries are definitions – definitions of you. But when someone is trying to define you according to what they think, what do you do? How do you keep your boundaries?

Boundaries are meant to protect and guide you and not to limit you. Therefore, as you draw boundaries, keep them, know when to expand them, and expand them. … More On Keeping Boundaries