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No, Rejection, Stop

4 Pointers to Help You Handle Rejection

July 13, 2020

Often, the first reactions to rejection, especially if your hopes for a positive response were quite high, are shock and denial. Denial is a defense mechanism that involves a refusal to accept reality, thus blocking external events from awareness. The human mind tends to respond by refusing to acknowledge rejection or by denying that it did happen.

Except you were unjustly rejected, in which case it is necessary to take action towards rebuttal, begin to move past the feeling of denial and get to a point where you can begin to deal with the situation. … More 4 Pointers to Help You Handle Rejection

Building Your Faith in the Face of Adversity

July 8, 2020

Everyday comes with its pack of troubles. People faced with different issues, some not easily recognized; emotional troubles, depression, breakdown, retrenchment, etc.

Locate people who will speak faith-filled words to you in times like this and spend time with them. Let God guide you to these people. Your faith has to be strong to face life’s challenges so, take the conscious efforts to build your faith today. … More Building Your Faith in the Face of Adversity

The Cost of Familiarity

July 7, 2020

Yes, you’ve seen these people at their best and worst moments: you’ve seen them laugh and cry. You’ve seen them pull of their shirts when there’s heat. You’ve seen them confused. Maybe you’ve even seen them snore or fart!
But you should learn to ignore their weakness/humanity. Learn to respect their ingenuity, strengths, and wisdom. Learn to submit to them and get things solved.
That solution or improvement you desire in your career, relationship, spiritual growth, attitude, behavior/habit and so on may just be around you. That friend of yours whom you laugh together all the time may have the solution. Your boyfriend/girlfriend may know the way out. That lady/guy who is younger than you may know just what you need. … More The Cost of Familiarity

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Let’s Talk about the Tough Topics

July 6, 2020

There are different approaches to understanding your emotions. Music, writing or art could be good therapy, as well as asking yourself basic questions like “When did this begin?”, “How do I feel about this?”, “What went wrong?”, or “What do I need to do better?”, in an attempt to get a grip on those feelings, whatever they may be, before sharing them with a trusted person. … More Let’s Talk about the Tough Topics

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On Decluttering: All You Need to Know

July 4, 2020

Clutter size vary greatly and this usually pose the main challenge in decluttering. The truth however is, every massive clutter started out little and only grew over time. Many reasons have been acclaimed to this human attitude of accumulating clutter, one of which is procrastination- the temptation to do it later. An average person desires and fantasize a neat surrounding but bargain with their mind when it comes to getting the work done. … More On Decluttering: All You Need to Know