Choosing Your Friends

You have to be a good friend first to yourself. Hopefully, you’ll come across some friends that are like life coaches, friends that’ll always push you and keep you to the high standards you set for yourself. They are friends that speak the truth you need to hear, they encourage and empower you when needed to. They are friends that push for your success because they know they are successful too when their friends are. … More Choosing Your Friends

Practicing Assertiveness

You are that person who can make a difference everywhere you get to. Your ugly perception about life must be changed. You are that goal-getter. You are exceptional and you need to put things right. It starts from now. You will improve on yourself as from this moment.

I need you to look at yourself again and say the best of words you have ever said to yourself. Will you? … More Practicing Assertiveness

Your time, Your life

Life is full of mysteries, humans are living with chunks of questions they can’t find answers to, puzzles that don’t seem solvable, and even a life that doesn’t look livable. Yet in a world of struggle and unending curiosity, you can thrive, you can cope, you can succeed, you can shine, you can be okay. Yes! If you realize and accept the fact that “your time is your life” … More Your time, Your life

Pressures From Parents on Choosing a Career Path

Choice of career determines destiny and an understanding of purpose helps to know what field of study to go. Most times, the supposed fame attached to a career is the reason why some parents want their children to go for it. Now, it isn’t about disobeying your parent but about giving your best to all you do. Let them know what you want and be good at it so they won’t have any choice but to let you go for what you desire. … More Pressures From Parents on Choosing a Career Path

Laying the Right Foundation as a Teen

Sometimes, a wrong choice can be amended but most times, they are irreversible. And even when choices are amended, the past is not erasable. Those that have trodden this path can tell you that it’s not as easy as it seems. Teenage years are serious years, you pay now and play later or you play now and pay later. The former is very much preferable. … More Laying the Right Foundation as a Teen

Teenage Pregnancy 

Surround yourself with people who love you and can relate to your life. Join a teens parent group too and seek out a mentor. Having a baby is not a death sentence for your future, you can still be what you want to be. Fine, it won’t be easy and convenient for you, but when it feels uneasy, just look up to God and his unconditional love. He’s got your back always. … More Teenage Pregnancy 

Don’t Copy Effort

It is tempting to just copy what others are doing or to copy what anyone is doing.

Learning from what others do well can be effective if done properly. To improve your practices, you can see what works for others, pick the principles for that success and then determine how to adapt them to your situation.

Don’t copy effort; learn from already laid down principles. … More Don’t Copy Effort