Going After Your Dreams Regardless of Fear

You must understand that your fears are legit. In fact, they are proof that you have dreams, and that your dreams are big.

Remember: Fear only lives in your mind. The words you say to yourself and the images you have stayed on your mind are key tools to achieving your dreams, notwithstanding the fear. … More Going After Your Dreams Regardless of Fear

Beyond Goal Setting; Apply Effective Strategies

The process of becoming what you want to be is not an easy task. It requires being intentional. As you evolve into who you are being trained for, you may experience hindrances ranging from lack of support to lack of resources. There will also be people who may want to spite you and frustrate you because you do not look like “it” yet. … More Beyond Goal Setting; Apply Effective Strategies

Notes on Failure- 2

In understanding that life simply happens, you in a way are prepared for the outcomes. Expect the best. Prepare for the best – it would not hurt to think of an alternative (s) as well.The goal is not to get caught up in sad occurrences and let those situations get the absolute best of us.If we lose now, we WILL win soon. … More Notes on Failure- 2

Life Lessons From my Undergraduate Days

While there is a lot of clamor recently for students to engage in extra-curricular activities while in school, the side to the clamoring that is not intensified is that any engagement or extra curricular activities should be logically chosen and planned in line with future career and aspirations. The ginger to engage in extra-curricular activities and fill up your resumé can spur you into fields that have no relation to your chosen field and career dream. And in 2020 job recruitment, job experience is only as good as its relation and relevance to the role you are applying for. … More Life Lessons From my Undergraduate Days

Let’s Talk About Gratitude

Do not shift gratitude to a later time, or for a greater good. Make it a huge part of your personality. Learn to say and mean thank you, every time, every where, to everyone.

To the security guard at bank, who opens the door for you to walk through, be grateful.
To the ushers at church, be grateful.
To the maid in your home, be grateful.
To the people in your life, be grateful.
To God in whose hand is your life, be grateful. … More Let’s Talk About Gratitude

4 Pointers to Help You Handle Rejection

Often, the first reactions to rejection, especially if your hopes for a positive response were quite high, are shock and denial. Denial is a defense mechanism that involves a refusal to accept reality, thus blocking external events from awareness. The human mind tends to respond by refusing to acknowledge rejection or by denying that it did happen.

Except you were unjustly rejected, in which case it is necessary to take action towards rebuttal, begin to move past the feeling of denial and get to a point where you can begin to deal with the situation. … More 4 Pointers to Help You Handle Rejection