You were designed for something uniquely beautiful. It is in you. If you feel like you’re not fulfilling purpose, it only means that you are yet to chisel off all the unnecessary things and allow the beauty show. This unnecessary stuff may be in the form of negative self-talks, certain routines, habits and negative associations. … More Reinventing You!
It is possible for a thing to be good, in fact, it can be the best but not right. What makes a thing right is not its general acceptability by people. It is not because it is a common trend, nor because it can be easily achieved. What makes it right is that it adds value to you, edifies you, and not in any way defiling or devaluing you and it glorifies your creator. … More How to Start Right
Influence is so powerful. If you spend just a minute with someone, it could either make you a better person or make you feel worse than you were before meeting them. There is much to what we think our association does to us. You can become a better person when you have good influencers. … More Who and What Influences You?
Procrastination knows no age bracket or gender, it comes naturally but shouldn’t be who we ought to be. It starts from a little snoozing of the alarm clock and a little shifting of one’s timetable. … More Overcoming Procrastination
Motivation is a force. A force that births motion. A motion that produces desired results. This is why when we are not motivated, reluctance and weariness sets in.
Anyone or anything can motivate you but if nobody or nothing motivates you, hey, motivate yourself. … More Motivating Yourself For More
We need to realise that the greatest victory we can have in a conflict is the ability to control ourselves better than the other person or the situation. The person who lacks self-control would be easily infiltrated, easily provoked and easily taken down. … More First Lesson in 2019
Have you started executing your plans for the year? I understand the excitement you might have at this early stage of the year on fulfilling your goals as soon as possible. However, if you are not careful, you could get too occupied with other things along the line that you forget to fulfill your goals or work on your plans. … More Take it One at a Time
Imagine you criticizing yourself and bringing yourself down, telling yourself that you are impossible, that you’re worthless, etc. It’s not just criticism but it affects you negatively. You tend to lose faith and hope in yourself, then negative thinking sets in, which not only affects you but also your work, your relationship, your mind, low self-esteem, health and life. … More Overcoming Distorted Negative Thinking
Changes in any form usually bring some unfamiliar situations which you need to adjust into. This adjustment period is what I can refer to as “a period of storm and stress”.
Everyone, at any point in life, has gone through this phase. You can talk to someone about it. Just know that you are never alone. … More Adolescence: a Period of Storm and Stress
