More often than not, these enemies take the form of the person between our own ears, or situations caused by our own hands. They become more dangerous because we concentrate on external factors, completely oblivious to the very cause of the problem that may be right in front of us. … More Dealing With the Enemy Within
Do not listen to people who say being kind does not pay. Kindness has a ripple effect. The kinder you are to other people, the kinder the universe will treat you (even if it is not immediately). Always remember that.
Decide on at least one random act of kindness that you will do today. … More February 17th: Random Acts of Kindness Day
Make effort, not excuses.
Get to a point where the effort doesn’t seem like an imposition anymore. Humans are a gift from God to you that should be valued and you make time out for what you value. … More Connection is Key in Friendships that you Value
Be careful of the type of company you keep. Make sure they are people that strengthen you for more, not people that are parasitic, some friends are just there to draw and drain you. Beware! Stay with people that will boost your happiness and make you see that you can survive through and overcome the hurdles. … More Surviving in the Face of Uncertainties
Indeed, distance unconsciously creates a barrier and in a moment, we tend to not feel the vibe anymore. More like it retrogresses into an acquaintance relationship. If care is not taken, we might even phase out and tend not to know how it started on a good note but blew out in a split second. … More How to Keep in Touch With Friends Regardless of Distance
It is not a bad idea to have someone you are looking up to, it is not wrong to allow someone lead you on, it is not a problem to want to achieve what another has achieved. But it becomes a problem when you try to be like them at all cost without even knowing their full success story, their sacrifices, the pain that comes with what you think/what you are seeing them enjoy. … More Letting Go Of Peer Pressure
, Real friends are people who genuinely stand by and support a person while Just friends are people who are identified as friends with no string attached. Just friends do not necessarily mean fake friends, it simply explains that they play no important role. … More Differences Between Real Friends and Just Friends
You have to be a good friend first to yourself. Hopefully, you’ll come across some friends that are like life coaches, friends that’ll always push you and keep you to the high standards you set for yourself. They are friends that speak the truth you need to hear, they encourage and empower you when needed to. They are friends that push for your success because they know they are successful too when their friends are. … More Choosing Your Friends
I hope you would be convinced to know that it is possible to stay calm, maintain peace and avoid conflict. Bear in mind though that these tips will, for now, only guarantee a shift in your own mindset and not a shift in the mindset of the people you would be dealing with.
The change you seek to see most of the time needs to take place in you first before it takes place in others. It’s a process. … More How to Deal with Difficult People